Martin H. van den Bergh

We learn that G-d forgave the ten spies who delivered a negative report about the Promised Land, causing the people to fear entering it. Even so, the spies were punished, and the Israelites were destined to wander in the wilderness for 40 years before their children would enter the land.

 

Rabbi Dr Joshua Berman explains that G-d’s forgiveness meant His special relationship with the Israelites would endure, even though they still had to face the consequences of their actions. He suggests that this lesson applies to all broken relationships, especially within families: seeking and granting forgiveness does not erase what happened, but it should help preserve the relationship. Our bond with those closest to us, like our relationship with G-d, should remain non-negotiable.

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At the same time, we should do all we can to ease tensions rather than inflame disputes. We learn this from Moses, who sent for Datan and Aviram, participants in Korach’s rebellion. On this episode, Rashi cites the Talmud (Sanhedrin 110): “One should not perpetuate a quarrel, even if you are right.” Instead, one should seek peace and resolution.

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Last Shabbat, I saw this teaching put into practice. Tensions rose in our area over the refusal of some ultra-religious groups to serve in the Israel Defence Forces, adding to the strain already caused by attacks from Hezbollah. A group of youngsters approached the demonstrators respectfully, while the police looked on, and helped calm the situation. They showed the finest qualities of our Jewish youth and proved that peace-making is possible even in difficult times.